Having delved a little into the online dating concept, I’ve realised an obvious plan/tactic.

Ok, so I’ve worked out that :

Women are ( on the whole ) more caring, and better at ‘ looking after me ‘ … and that :

Men are ( on the whole ) stronger, and more technically minded ( so better at my various wheelchair attachments, involving nuts and lèvers etc  )

It would appear that on the dating sites ( and I’m only on one for ‘ straights ‘ ) there are a percentage  whose profile picture is say, of a male, but whose say, 3rd and 4th pictures, is the same male but in a dress and wig, with lots of makeup.   See, that’s exactly what I need ( not as a girlfriendboyfriend ) in a carer – a strong man that has a very feminine side!

Bingo!