♠Just read your recent post re carer, sorry it went so wrong but sounds best that she is outta your life for ever.

I only have a tiny percent of understanding how vulnerable these situations must make you feel. Years ago I was in hospital and was on bed rest for a pregnancy. I recall this one weird nurse (I had already felt uneasy around her). Anyway one eve at around 10.0pm at night she came to my isolated room in the hospital and started speaking to me about religion (which they are not allowed to do), after 10 mins she put the red light on in the room meaning she was busy looking after me medically….NOT! I lay there not wanting to unbalance her anymore whilst she started reeling off bible scriptures after bible scriptures, she did this for 2 hours in a trance like psychic way. I still think about it as I felt trapped but realising she wasn’t the full quid, I didn’t want her to turn on me either. I still wish to this day I had reported her. She didn’t physically hurt me but made me feel like the weaker one. I hope you are okay and your new carer stays a while. Have you ever thought of a male carer? xx

B x